Marie

Author's details

Name: Marie Mertilus
Date registered: August 28, 2011
URL: http://portofpeacecounseling.com

Latest posts

  1. Just Got Engaged What Should We Do? — May 24, 2017
  2. The Simplest Way to Encourage Your Spouse Today — May 22, 2017
  3. How can I help my spouse understand our baby needs me? — May 17, 2017
  4. 3 Reasons Your Marriage Needs the “Boundary Talk” — May 15, 2017
  5. Should married couples have joint or separate accounts? — May 10, 2017

Most commented posts

  1. Can Pre-Marital Counseling Really Save Your Marriage? — 17 comments
  2. What Can You Learn from A Child? — 7 comments
  3. 3 Tips To Leverage Differences and Build a Stronger Marriage — 7 comments
  4. Watch out for these 4 marriage killers — 6 comments
  5. Are Your Internal Obstacles Getting in the Way of Your Happy Marriage? — 6 comments

Author's posts listings

May 24

Just Got Engaged What Should We Do?

Ask Marie? We just got engaged. We came from broken homes. What can we do to ensure that we will not repeat the stories of divorce we witnessed as children?   Congratulation. Engagement is an exciting time. Take time with your fiance to build your lives. You have make the first step and it is a huge step. …

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May 22

The Simplest Way to Encourage Your Spouse Today

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Monday Marriage Motivation The simplest way to encourage your spouse is saying I love you. However, it is so simple that most couple really forget to use it daily. Life is stressful by itself. Marriage can be quite challenging. These three simple words: I LOVE YOU can really be a lifeline that keep your marriage alive. …

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May 17

How can I help my spouse understand our baby needs me?

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Ask Marie? We just had our first baby 6 months ago. My husband doesn’t want the baby to sleep in our bed. How can I help my spouse understand our baby needs me?    Congratulations on your baby. The first baby brings so much joy, and at the same time it is a learning experience. …

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May 15

3 Reasons Your Marriage Needs the “Boundary Talk”

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Monday Marriage Motivation The word boundary is really not a curse word. In fact, it is a very freeing word. It allows each spouse to know how to freely love each other. It defines what is and what is not permissible in a marriage. You would think that every couple in America would have the …

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May 10

Should married couples have joint or separate accounts?

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Ask Marie? Should married couples have joint or separate accounts?     With money fights and money problems being one of the main causes of divorce, I advocate for couples to have joint accounts 99.9% of the time. There is a saying if you follow the money, you will find the trail. Money can break a …

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May 08

What Kind of Marriage Do You Want?

Monday Marriage Motivation The question might  have got you off your current thought pattern. That is okay. Don’t ignore the question. Answer it. Don’t keep reading until you can actually picture the marriage you want. Do you wish you could connect  at a deeper level with your spouse? Or, has the word marriage has been …

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Dec 25

MERRY CHRISTMAS

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Have A Wonderful Christmas Photo Courtesy of Ian Liao Under Flickr Creatives Commons

Mar 18

Will you let your children take you to court too?

Raising children is one of the most rewarding experiences a couple can share.  Two individuals coming together to love, train, discipline, educate, encourage and inspire a baby to mature into a functional and responsible adult. That is not an easy job and it can create a strain in marriage. Last week, I came across a …

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Mar 16

Mine, Yours and Ours, 3 Tips for Financial Unity in Marriage

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You know when you walked down the aisle marriage meant forever. However, many couples do not reconcile their checkbooks. Money issues  and problems are the # 1 cause for marital discord. Financial issues in marriage go beyond the checkbook. Couples have separate  and secrets accounts. There are spouses who spend money out of boredom, out …

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Feb 25

4 Ways to Say I Love You by Giving Affection

Touch is universal. Touch is powerful. No dictionary is needed to define a loving touch. No translator is needed to translate the love that is communicated with a single touch. Yet many married couples are not using physical touch as a tool to express love in their marriages. In time of crisis, we hold hands; …

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